“There have been some fantastic individuals who did do every little thing they might to try to lengthen his life; ultimately, there wasn’t something anybody may have completed to save lots of him,” Mr Cordner mentioned.
“There is no sense on our half that anyone else was in charge.”
“It was simply an error of judgement on Ben’s half and it is had simply clearly horrible penalties.”
Mr Cordner mentioned Ben was an “extremely particular” one that cherished sport and was academically gifted, excelling in his chemistry and biomolecular science research.
“He was all the time a really clever younger man, he all the time had an actual thirst for information, that was one of many issues I all the time loved most about him,” Mr Cordner mentioned.
Tim O’Brien, principal of Epping Boy’s Excessive Faculty the place Ben was vice-captain in 2015, mentioned his demise had been a “horrible shock” for the college group, and he had been “extremely regarded” by workers and college students.
Whereas educational, Ben was additionally cherished spending time together with his buddies and his long-time girlfriend Laura, who Mr Cordner mentioned was “the love of his life”.
“He cherished dancing, regardless of the place they had been out and about he would all the time be the primary one to get on the dance ground,” Mr Cordner mentioned.
Cricket was one among Ben’s passions, and the information of his demise tremendously affected members of the North Ryde RSL Cricket Membership and wider cricket group, NRRCC president Kelvin Grey mentioned.
On Sunday the membership hosted a tribute match in opposition to an English staff, and named a trophy – the Ben Cordner Cup – in Ben’s honour.
“It was a beautiful day, my different son Tim and I each performed within the recreation, and that was an excellent second for us to exit and open the batting collectively,” Mr Cordner mentioned.
“We held the cup on the finish of the day, I used to be the successful captain and that was a stunning second.”
Whereas the day was additionally tinged with unhappiness, Mr Cordner it was a day his spouse Linda and older son Tim would “always remember,” and the household was “tremendously strengthened” by the assist they’ve acquired throughout this powerful time.
“I do know there’s going to be some actually powerful days forward of us, but it surely’s given us nice encouragement,” he mentioned.
A celebration of Ben’s life is being hosted at Epping Boys Excessive Faculty subsequent Wednesday afternoon.
Rachel Clun is a journalist at The Sydney Morning Herald.