Throughout our grandparents’ instances, organized marriage was a norm and largely practiced, irrespective of the race or faith.
Falling in love after marriage would possibly work again then, however now, though organized marriage remains to be practiced by a number of households, more often than not, the couple will face an uphill job – which is making the wedding work.
“Cinta selepas nikah” itu bagus dan sangat bagus.
Tetapi ada juga kes seram sejuk berlaku asbab “cinta selepas nikah”.
Dalam islam pun ada lalui fasa pertunangan untuk berkenalan lebih rapat kan?
Tetapi… ini cerita betul. Dari rakan sendiri.
— Ayu Aziz (@ayuazizz) September 6, 2018
Ayu Aziz shared on Twitter a story about her pal, Aini, who went via an organized marriage which ended badly.
Aina’s a superb baby, in her 20s, and he or she was not a believer in falling in love earlier than marriage. She felt that it was only a waste of time. Therefore, she had requested her dad and mom to search for anybody that they felt was appropriate and good to be her husband.
At a marriage, her dad and mom met with a woman that was thinking about making Aini her daughter-in-law, so, she launched her to the son, Mirul.
Every week after their introduction, Mirul’s dad and mom got here to Aini’s home to clarify their intention, to unite each of them. At the moment, she was not at dwelling however was at her school. With out informing or asking her opinion, the dad and mom agreed to the proposal.
As a superb daughter, she additionally agreed and each of them obtained engaged. Inside the three months length of their engagement, they contacted one another a few times via WhatsApp and telephone calls.
They obtained married in a easy but lovely marriage ceremony and a month after tying the knot, she obtained pregnant.
Sadly, Mirul instantly modified. He can be so indignant each time she had her being pregnant illness. He would throw stuff and scream vulgar phrases in the direction of her, however when her dad and mom have been there, he can be the type son-in-law. Such a better actor.
When confronted, Mirul revealed that truly he didn’t need to marry her. He was compelled by the dad and mom too and when she requested whether or not he was seeing anybody, he stored quiet.
She tried to make their marriage work. Wore lovely garments, cooked scrumptious meals for him however he would nonetheless deal with her the identical.
Someday, she went dwelling with a shock reward for the husband and upon reaching, she noticed Mirul’s automobile parked in entrance of the home.
She seemed for him all around the home however couldn’t discover him and when she opened the door to their room, her coronary heart broke.
She noticed her husband in mattress, with one other man! She began to cry and cry whereas holding her soon-to-be-born baby, questioning God why did this occur to her. Mirul stood up rushed in the direction of her and tried to consolation his devastated spouse.
She requested, “What did I do to you to deserve this?” He may solely cry and apologise to her for all of the issues he had achieved.
He then revealed the true story about himself. His dad and mom knew that he had emotions in the direction of his personal gender and so they despatched him to a spiritual faculty to make sure he didn’t keep that method and since he didn’t need to disappoint them, he put up an act, exhibiting that he was all “cured”.
Honestly, he stated he was in a relationship with a person since his first 12 months of diploma. Her coronary heart suffered a lot ache after listening to this. She liked him honestly, accepting him in her life though he was a stranger earlier than they obtained married.
She held her abdomen, placing his hand on her abdomen too, after which she requested, “Do you like our baby?” He answered, “Sure, and I really like you too.”
She went on crying and pleaded to him to divorce her. They’ll nonetheless deal with their baby collectively however she not needed him as her husband.
Actually a heartbreaking story for each events.
Are you aware anybody who’re concerned in an organize marriage? Is it nonetheless relevant to our era or would you slightly know an individual first earlier than tying the knot with them?
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